This is your chatboard. Because you're 14, your privacy setting automatically have it set to "friends only", which is cool. I haven't seen anybody abuse any chatboards yet, but I'm sure once Xanga grows some more, you might see more of that... stuff like spammers posting advertisements on your board. Anyhow, I just learned this myself, but you can answer people's suggested questions by posting to their chatboards as well as leaving them comments. Cheers! ^_^